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Post by SPchick on Aug 31, 2003 20:34:44 GMT 7
agreed!! ;D
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Post by PaRkA on Aug 31, 2003 20:41:33 GMT 7
im wearing black pants does that count
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Post by SPchick on Aug 31, 2003 20:43:24 GMT 7
pfft dont fib you are not! ;D
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Post by PaRkA on Aug 31, 2003 20:49:36 GMT 7
damn how did you know im not wearing any pants... thought i could feel a draft
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Post by anti on Aug 31, 2003 20:53:48 GMT 7
one of my friends was going thro a goth phase and he had black nail polish when his mum found she thought he was turning gay
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Post by Josh on Aug 31, 2003 21:19:18 GMT 7
i'm single.
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Post by .honeyspider. on Sept 2, 2003 14:41:22 GMT 7
i'm single. me too
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Post by Josh on Sept 2, 2003 19:24:36 GMT 7
but hopefully not for long ;D
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Post by .honeyspider. on Sept 3, 2003 10:44:48 GMT 7
who... me or you? lol ;D mine
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Post by Josh on Sept 3, 2003 16:22:58 GMT 7
me
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Post by blue_june_destroyer on Sept 4, 2003 19:32:46 GMT 7
one of my friends was going thro a goth phase and he had black nail polish when his mum found she thought he was turning gay :rolleyes:
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Post by kanzax on Sept 15, 2003 17:04:35 GMT 7
.....very belatedly I'M NOT! ..... and havent been for 3 months. not sure if its love yet, but its getting a lots close to it.
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Post by .honeyspider. on Sept 18, 2003 8:44:11 GMT 7
.....very belatedly I'M NOT! ..... and havent been for 3 months. not sure if its love yet, but its getting a lots close to it. congrats i hope it goes well for u *smiles on the inside*
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Post by toolgasm on Oct 18, 2003 19:33:47 GMT 7
I know this thread's been untouched for a while, but I thought I'd try and keep it coming along. No one posts in the "Love Is Suicide" forum Well at least not very often... Anyways, does anyone else find it rather strange how you can be in love one second and then have to be out of it the next? Well, it's not as simple as that, but I was in the biggest relationship of my life between January and April this year, and I was so deeply in love, at the time I couldn't imagine what I'd be like without it. But then the situation changed, and the other person's feelings weren't as strong anymore, and they broke it off. For about a month and a half I had a cloud hanging over my head, but then suddenly everything became clear, and I felt no attachment anymore... I'm finding single life fine...However I must admit that I do miss being that close to a person but it's not slowing me down, and I don't feel any particular urge to be in a relationship again in a hurry...Am I crazy or something?
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Post by SPchick on Oct 18, 2003 19:44:01 GMT 7
hmm yeah it has been a bit quiet around these parts lately. I dunno why?
I know what you mean though, its weird that you can be so miserable for so long, and then one day you just realise that your not sad anymore. Its so hard to imagine when your gloomy boots, that you'd ever feel better. But it happens.
And I dont think your crazy for not being in a hurry to get into another relationship. Its far better to wait and see what happens rather than jump head first into another relationship.
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Post by toolgasm on Oct 18, 2003 19:55:37 GMT 7
And I dont think your crazy for not being in a hurry to get into another relationship. Its far better to wait and see what happens rather than jump head first into another relationship. Thanks It's probably also got something to do with the fact that I think I set the bar really high with my first major relationship, and I haven't seen anyone else that measures up to that standard in the meantime lol It's strange what love can do to your vision...It's kind of like a double-edged sword. On one hand, here you have this wonderful person devoting a heap of their attention to you, and everything seems peachy and as long as you have your lover girl/boy, then nothing can bother you really. But it does succeed in making you blind. Whoever said that quote "Love is blind" was pretty accurate. It can be interpreted in a few different ways. The way I look at it is that you're so wrapped up with this person that you don't realise the tiny negative things about them. That's exactly what happened with my last relationship, after that month and a half, I was finally able to look back and say "Hey, I didn't realise that the person was so bitchy" or whatever. You know it's really good if you can actually see the negative things, and love the person for them or despite them
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Post by SPchick on Oct 18, 2003 20:01:59 GMT 7
I dont know if your blind to their actions, but I think you just sub-consciously accept them because you love that person and you dont want to rock the boat.
While I agree about loving a person despite their negative actions, you've also got to love yourself enough to not be treated like shit. I see so many people put up with all sorts of crap that they shouldnt have to, because their "in looooove"
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Post by kanzax on Oct 20, 2003 17:20:27 GMT 7
yeah, it kinda sucks a lot like that. your body can fully trick you into thinking its love, then bammo, it all over.
i suggest casual sex, nothing beats it when single. and its a hell of a lot more socialable than other solo activities.
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Post by SPchick on Oct 21, 2003 18:37:14 GMT 7
I have to agree with the casual sex thing, its much healthier than being a relationship that you dont particulary want to be in.
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Post by PaRkA on Oct 23, 2003 16:16:21 GMT 7
did i mention im not single.....anymore
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Post by sunkissed on Oct 25, 2003 13:17:29 GMT 7
claimer
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Post by PaRkA on Oct 27, 2003 15:18:01 GMT 7
Oi!!!!!!!!! ;D
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Post by AlmostOz on Oct 27, 2003 15:24:01 GMT 7
did i mention im single now
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Post by .honeyspider. on Oct 31, 2003 14:42:47 GMT 7
did i mention im single now really? what happened.... *join the club* sighs.....
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I can dance!
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Post by stumbleine on Mar 15, 2004 16:04:33 GMT 7
I'm bored so I thought I dig through some old threads and have my say.
I've been single for ages. I've never been in a serious/long term relationship. Actually I never been in love. So I know what its like being single. I'm so used to it that I don't really feel like I should be in a relationship or on the look-out for "that guy". I do have my moments when I think it would be kinda nice to have someone who I can talk to about anything and everything, even those little things that usually stay within the sharing information bounds when it comes to friends and family. Even to just cuddle with. But those moments are few and far between. I'm usually the person who if you see a soppy chick flick with will sit there and make gagging noises at the "right" moments. lol I've been single and shown no interest in guys (usually theres no guy around worth the attention and the good ones are usually gay or attached) for that long, my mum actually thought I was a lesbian. I'd rather be single and wait for the right guy to enter my life than be in a relationship because I feel the need to or for security - just waiting for the next best thing to come along like one of my "friends".
So basically I'm single and I like it.
And don't even think about setting me up.
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Post by AlmostOz on Mar 16, 2004 8:49:02 GMT 7
The last time i posted here i had broken up with my girlfriend. now we have been together for another six months going great too. In my experience waiting for someone usually works if you are looking for love. But SIYL has little meaning if you haven't been in love before i love listening to it with my girlfriend. Being single for me = no sex, no hugs no nothing. Just getting drunk with my mates. Now i get drunk with my mates albiet slightly less often, and get everything else too. We go out clubbing and i have a good laugh at all my mates desperately wasting all their money on buying chicks drinks, trying to pash them or grope them haha, then i can go home the next day see my girlfriend and do it all for free. But don't let me fool you, thats not all i have her for, thats secondary to me, i have her for supporting me and looking after me and doing the same for her. Theres always someone there who knows you and can say the right stuff to get you going again. its like that add "she has a great job, he has genital herpes" makes me laugh for some saddistic reason
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Post by .honeyspider. on Mar 16, 2004 12:03:31 GMT 7
hmm it took me a while to start "enjoying" being single... well i still don't actually "enjoy" the fact of being single.. i more so like how i have had time to myself more, and time to find out who i am on my own.. then find someone to compliment me..
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Post by .honeyspider. on Apr 2, 2004 10:11:56 GMT 7
damn i shouldve posted this on april fools day koz i know no-one will believe it anyway... haha... but i'm no longer a single woman.. whoo hoo... yup, thats right. and whos the lucky boy?.. none other than mr "i'm the biggest asshole on ozphoria" hehe... (when hes really a sweetie.. ive blown the cover now!) read under my icon and you'll get it
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Post by syringe mouth on Apr 2, 2004 11:39:33 GMT 7
ssshhhh....................................shut up.
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Post by .honeyspider. on Apr 4, 2004 9:47:14 GMT 7
ssshhhh....................................shut up. haha i wont be silenced! btw this is a first.. syringe mouth in the love forum..
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