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Post by .honeyspider. on Jul 23, 2003 16:58:15 GMT 7
WHY..........  ?........ people that have hurt you keep coming back into your life when they have told u where to go... only months/even weeks before hand? it pisses me off like u wouldnt believe! if someone has told you to basically get f**Ked, why do they come back for one last stab and try to worm themselves back into your life and your new found happiness? is it a power trip, an ego thing? are they trying to get you back because they didnt realise what they had with u until someone else has taken you? i am so so SO sick of it! argh! and its starting to wreck things i have good in my life because i ant stop thinking about it. i hate it, i hate people like that *jerk lyrics watch out* sorry, back to my point here.. i hate it how it has an affect over me.. still... it shouldnt! *p.s. sorry for the harsh words.. i am just upset right now*  |
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Post by SPchick on Jul 23, 2003 18:02:14 GMT 7
I dunno know why Donna, some people are just asses.
Maybe they are bored, maybe they like causing trouble, maybe they get a sick sense of satisfaction from it.
I dunno.
Best not to worry about it.
*hugs*
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Post by demi sex god from hell on Jul 23, 2003 20:54:18 GMT 7
some people, or exes, get jealous that what you have and want to meddle. its unavoidable sometimes. i agree with vic, don't let it get to you.
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Post by sunky on Jul 23, 2003 21:31:58 GMT 7
its ussually the types of people who - to make themselves happier they have to hurt your life. It really sucks and can make life difficult for the party who has moved on and is happier in their life. But there is no way of avoiding it.
They feel they are doing the right thing by them, but they are not thinking how it is affecting you - its very selfish of these people.
Bree and I went through a similiar thing, with a person from my past. It was very hard for me to ignore and stop thinking about it - BUT - eventually as time passed and my life changed "IT" began to leave us alone enough for us to grow to a point where nobody can hurt us anymore.
*i hope that made sence*
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Post by blue_june_destroyer on Jul 23, 2003 23:29:26 GMT 7
yeah... things have to be said and eventually they just fuck off.
so glad "IT" got the message before i had to do something drastic...
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Post by Magdelena on Jul 25, 2003 17:52:06 GMT 7
You helped me, so now its my turn......I can definately tell you one reason why someone would do this...sadly ive been the villain in the story, and i only recently learned the error of my ways. It starts with a feeling of loneliness, then stews with the rememberance of the comfort you used to have with your ex. The villains intent is nothing bad, they just want what they used to have, even though they know it wont really be the same, and a weakness in their stride allows loves gravity to pull them back in.......its only once you get inside and fuck it all up all over again, that you realise your mistake, and how evil you became.
Thats the worst part....you knew your mistake, tried to fix it, made it worse, and really blew it all to hell....and its all your fault...sometimes they villain hurts more than the victim.
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Post by blue_june_destroyer on Jul 26, 2003 11:18:55 GMT 7
All I will say is that Exes are Exes for a reason. Never go back. Never try adn make up for what was lost.
It's futile and it makes me so mad and disappointed when people do that.
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Post by .honeyspider. on Jul 27, 2003 9:55:49 GMT 7
You helped me, so now its my turn......I can definately tell you one reason why someone would do this...sadly ive been the villain in the story, and i only recently learned the error of my ways. It starts with a feeling of loneliness, then stews with the rememberance of the comfort you used to have with your ex. The villains intent is nothing bad, they just want what they used to have, even though they know it wont really be the same, and a weakness in their stride allows loves gravity to pull them back in.......its only once you get inside and fuck it all up all over again, that you realise your mistake, and how evil you became. Thats the worst part....you knew your mistake, tried to fix it, made it worse, and really blew it all to hell....and its all your fault...sometimes they villain hurts more than the victim. thanku so much.. u have helped me more than u probably know *hugs* much appreciated! |
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