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Post by .honeyspider. on Aug 29, 2003 13:41:10 GMT 7
ok i am speaking from very recent events here.. so i don't have a concrete view on this yet.. though i would like to think i do.......  do you think that two people can be 'best friends' for life if they have been in a relationship together in the past.. and more so.. do you think it can work/last? i would like to know peoples thoughts on this one koz trev and i are going to try our best to do it.. because we believe we can.... however, i am not fully sold on the idea yet.. i guess because i was the one who wanted more than a friendship... i would like to think it does work.. and if anyone has that kind of rel/ship with someone.. please speak up! ~ or even if u have been in one that didnt work..... i think i just need to hear it worked for someone  |
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Post by Josh on Aug 29, 2003 16:20:27 GMT 7
*shrugs*
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Post by anti on Aug 31, 2003 20:22:08 GMT 7
i guess it depends on the break up terms
ive seen friends break up and still remain friends but it usually is a bit awkward, especially when they start dating again
sorry if i didnt help much
good luck tho, i hope it works out
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Post by .honeyspider. on Sept 1, 2003 11:00:24 GMT 7
yeh thats the bit im worried bout.. if trev ever starts dating someone else.. i would like to think one day trev and i will get back together.. but from his point of view.. *koz he broke up with me* i think he is looking for someone else i nthe future to be with.. and it scares me that its not me.  well yeah.. maybe i am reading too much into it right now.. thanks anyway u did help me a bit  |
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Post by saintal on Sept 1, 2003 14:05:22 GMT 7
depends on how it ends I think. I'd like to think it is still possible though. I think a lot of it depends on how well you got on before you started going out with that person, and how long you knew each other etc.
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Post by syringe mouth on Sept 1, 2003 15:49:37 GMT 7
Haha you spelt freind wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by Josh on Sept 2, 2003 11:53:18 GMT 7
Haha you spelt freind wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!! ummm i believe you spelt it wrong. nice work retard! |
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Post by .honeyspider. on Sept 2, 2003 13:59:19 GMT 7
ummm i believe you spelt it wrong. nice work retard! hehe.. nice one josh.. love your work  |
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Post by syringe mouth on Sept 2, 2003 15:02:36 GMT 7
ummm i believe you spelt it wrong. ummm. gee really? Send you in your application to forensics now!! With highly tuned observational skills like yours, shit champ, you're like umm a certainty. |
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Post by Steve on Sept 2, 2003 20:29:18 GMT 7
Ok, i think this isn't the right thread to be fucking around in, syringe.
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Post by kanzax on Sept 15, 2003 16:55:48 GMT 7
Send you in your application to forensics now!! With highly tuned observational skills like yours, shit champ, you're like umm a certainty. not unless he's too tall. the forensics people dont like applicants to be too tall. something to do with the microscopes. they can't be too tall or else they would have to buy taller microscopes. or at least taller desks. but the desks have already been installed so maybe they could get him a smaller chair. but one odd chair would look odd so they would just get a different microscope. but then the microscope would be too expensive. so unless he only has tall legs and a regular sized torso, he would have to supply his own microscope and i know he has no microscope. sorry, i saw cat power last night... i been like this all day. |
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Post by kanzax on Sept 15, 2003 17:03:03 GMT 7
but donna, i can supply a worthy addenum to this thread. i am best (or at worst extremely good) friends with a woman, of whom i used to date. our relationship lasted about 4-6 months when we figured out that we weren't right for each other, and probably aren't to this day. however, we have both remained loyal and friendly. we may go for about a fortnight without seeing each other at a time, or we could see each other every day of the week, it doesn't matter, we have remained good friends for the last seven years.
admittedly, seven years isn't life, but its a start. i think the trick is that we don't see each other every day. or even every other day. we live two different lives, catching up when it suits us both.
hope thats helped.
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Post by kanzax on Sept 15, 2003 17:22:08 GMT 7
oh and one more bit: we have both been in and out of relationships with not a lot changing. currently we are both in relationships, yet we see quite a bit of each other and still have the same amount of fun.
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Post by toolgasm on Sept 15, 2003 20:02:32 GMT 7
I hate to be a wet blanket h o n e y s p i d e r, but the only relationships that I've been in have turned out ugly after the breakup I don't mean to discourage or dishearten you, but I've been really good friends with these people before we went out, to make sure that the relationship would have some chance of surviving. But things seem to be against me I'd love someone to prove this theory wrong for me though... lol |
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Post by .honeyspider. on Sept 16, 2003 8:42:15 GMT 7
kanzax that is awesome to hear.. thanku so much for letting me know. i feel like trev and i will be like that anyway, the last two weeks especially have been great, we have done our own thing but also seen each other when we want to.. which is almost every day but thats cool. we need each other more so right now, and i know once this becomes easier, we will be able to go a few days without seeing each other.. and it'll still be cool. the only thing is, at this stage i cant see myself being *ok* with new rel/ships.. it will be hard if it ever happens. buti have decided for now that i wont think about it. it gets me down too much toolgasm.. i know what u mean i have tried really hard in the past to keep friendships after break ups and it seems to be too hard for one of us in the end usually. hopefully i will be the girl to prove u wrong.. koz i will never stop trying with trev.. it will be him who stops it if anyone. and somehow i dont think he will either!  |
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Post by toolgasm on Sept 16, 2003 10:16:45 GMT 7
I hope you prove me wrong too Good luck with it all, I really hope it works out!  |
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Post by .honeyspider. on Sept 18, 2003 15:10:50 GMT 7
thanku.. thats sweet of u |
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Post by .honeyspider. on Oct 20, 2003 12:44:13 GMT 7
i haven't been around here in a while.. but i just wanted to jump on and say.. things are going great with trev and i.. we are still very much in love, and the best of friends. we are really happy with how it's going.. we have had our ups and downs since the break up, but he has been my rock and i have been able to jump into a beautiful friendship with him.. and the main thing is.. we know we have each other forever.. ;D
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Post by kanzax on Oct 20, 2003 17:08:59 GMT 7
i haven't been around here in a while.. but i just wanted to jump on and say.. things are going great with trev and i.. we are still very much in love, and the best of friends. we are really happy with how it's going.. we have had our ups and downs since the break up, but he has been my rock and i have been able to jump into a beautiful friendship with him.. and the main thing is.. we know we have each other forever.. ;D sounding like cool, keep it on going then. |
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Post by Carlie on Oct 20, 2003 18:17:03 GMT 7
YAY!! Donna's back!!! Great to hear how things are going! ;D
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Post by .honeyspider. on Oct 21, 2003 14:37:26 GMT 7
YAY!! Donna's back!!! Great to hear how things are going! ;D yay my carlie! hey did u get my email? zee latest news is in there for ya yeah things are goin great guns.. couldn't be better.. well unless.. u know ;D trev just picked up the catherine c.d for $2.00 au buy it now on ebay! fucking yeah! lol |
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Post by Carlie on Oct 21, 2003 17:03:04 GMT 7
Yeah i got your e-mail sweetie! Sorry i havn't replied i've been really busy these past few weeks and i havn't really had time to write a propper reply!! dont worry i havnt forgotten about you!!! ;D Will talk soon promise
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Post by .honeyspider. on Oct 23, 2003 15:06:25 GMT 7
hey no probs carlie.. i will await your email then i wanted to send u my livejournal password too so u can keep updated there.. unfortunately its friends only so only people who are logged in can read it.. so i thought.. i will send the password to miss carlie and she can read it as she wishes ..koz i trust ya xx |
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