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Post by stumbleine on Apr 10, 2004 14:44:54 GMT 7
With all this talk about whats good and bad about being single. What's makes being in a relationship so great?
I'm very single, never been in a serious relationship and have been thinking ALOT lately that it might be good to be in a relationship. I'd like to hear everyone's views and experiences.
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Post by kanzax on Apr 10, 2004 18:32:45 GMT 7
sex
whenever you want it.
and you dont have to wear fucking aftershave.
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Post by nitrousovercast on Apr 10, 2004 18:43:24 GMT 7
^ This guy's really deep.
I mean wow.
Gee kanzax you must go all the way to China.
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Post by stumbleine on Apr 11, 2004 8:20:45 GMT 7
Yeah real deep, but I'm guessing its a valid point to be made.
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Post by SPchick on Apr 11, 2004 14:15:00 GMT 7
Its true! I never wear aftershave!
hehehe
but seriously, I'm a big fan of the serious relationship.
Jesse and I have been together nigh on a year and a half and its all going swimmingly.
We are practically living together, we probably spend one night a week apart.
The best thing about being in a relationship? Well theres many things. Being awoken in the morning by a kiss, having someone to talk to no matter what time of day or night, when I'm working late and he goes and gets me chinese for dinner, watching dvds in bed, making travel plans which involve a 4 day roadtrip.
Aww
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Post by AlmostOz on Apr 11, 2004 14:16:32 GMT 7
when doing something for someone else (ie girlfriend) makes you happy too. i made kylie breakfast in bed this morning she was a bit hungover from last night, croisants toast and easter buns with juice. theres always someone special who knows you well to guide you if you aren't sure. you can amuse yourself when you are bored by thinking of things to do next time you see them i think the only bonus about being single is that missing them doesn't drive you crazy its hard to concentrate sometimes, but a relationship is definately worth it. on the china side of things my mates say that i should break up with my gf so i can hook up. I just laugh at them. they get sex like once every month or two months if they are LUCKY! and it costs them about $100 buying drinks going out getting a taxi etc (im not talking hookers). All it costs me is $1 for a condom. and i can get it anytime my parents go away, and sometimes when they are home too. o thats fun! when you have achance of getting caught  thats when its the best. mum came in once just as we had finished. my gf was so embaressed. mum didn't know or feinted ignorance though. what else, them buying nice stuff for you and you getting stuff for them, (ive gotten a guitar and many other things i wouldn't have had otherwise) o and im no fashoin guru, she keeps me in the trends, id sit around in my crusaders rugby jersey half the time otherwise. take the brunky, two people who love the smashing pumpkins, how cool would that be? i don't get that but we both love live, so its similar, we are planning a trip to see them overseas. Moving in together will be good too, planning for it next year, should be great waking up next to her, i think ill make her breakfast in bed all the time, she deserves it. O and the quirky things like being blanket hogs, we have two blankets one each because one usually gets none otherwise. Theres someone to tell you honestly when you are being dumb, and you don't realise it. When everything is wrong theres one highlight still in your life. It keeps your emotions stirring, arguing getting hurt loving, its all got to be good for you, can't be neutral all the time. WOW! i just noticed, im 11 days off being with my sunshine for 22 months! cool im taking her for breakfast on the beach when the sunrises. see doing things for each other. But i would say that its a lot of hardwork, and a lot of time to get to know each other - 22 months for me and kylie to know each other pretty much perfectly, she can read my thoughts. I was thinking about getting another blanket when we were sleeping and i know i said nothing and she rolled over and said "did you say something about a blanket?" scary. there will be no more argument now, i think i win. thankyou.  |
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Post by toolgasm on Apr 11, 2004 18:07:02 GMT 7
Far out Nick! You sure are open about your relationship! Does Kylie know you're discussing your sex life on Ozphoria...?  |
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Post by AlmostOz on Apr 12, 2004 15:25:51 GMT 7
Far out Nick! You sure are open about your relationship! Does Kylie know you're discussing your sex life on Ozphoria...? you keep your mouth shut buddy |
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Post by .honeyspider. on Apr 12, 2004 18:43:40 GMT 7
you keep your mouth shut buddy i think its sweet.. revealing, but sweet.. anyway yeah, as for my two cents.. relationships are grand. well good ones anyway. however i would rather be single unless it is with someone i see myself with in the future. i dont date guys who i just wanna be with for a couple of months, just so im not lonely.. i date them in hope of it sticking around for a long long time, if not forever. well the preferable is forever, but yeh that doesnt always happen, but the intention is forever. hmm, yup.. right now i have been completely blown away.. hit by a bus.. god i dont know.. im in bliss! never felt so happy, so loved or so amazing as i do when im with reece. it is so nice to find someone who adores you as much as u do them and whats even nicer is that we understand each other without even having to say a thing. |
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Post by AlmostOz on Apr 12, 2004 20:03:44 GMT 7
i didn't think i revealed much
i like the threat of being caught and the price of condoms. ?? maybe i took it a little bit too far with the being caught bit, but theres no details
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Post by .honeyspider. on Apr 13, 2004 6:57:04 GMT 7
i didn't think i revealed much i like the threat of being caught and the price of condoms. ?? maybe i took it a little bit too far with the being caught bit, but theres no details hehe its cool i was just teasing.. not too much info revealed as yet and yeah.. i love the threat of being caught.. its very exciting hmm.. and condoms.. well all i can say is that banana ones are evil..... evil evil things. the end. |
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Post by stumbleine on Apr 13, 2004 7:42:45 GMT 7
Right-o then.
Lately, I've been thinking that I'm missing out on something really good and I want to be in the good kind of relationship. Just about all my friends are in relationships and they are so happy. I guess I'm just craving some kind of affection.
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Post by AlmostOz on Apr 13, 2004 9:33:44 GMT 7
Right-o then. Lately, I've been thinking that I'm missing out on something really good and I want to be in the good kind of relationship. Just about all my friends are in relationships and they are so happy. I guess I'm just craving some kind of affection. have a hug from me honeyspider .. i won't ask |
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Post by .honeyspider. on Apr 13, 2004 16:46:14 GMT 7
have a hug from me honeyspider .. i won't ask yuss, 'tis best not to ask when faced with comments like those hehe oh and jacq... sorry i changed the subject slightly.. i do know what u mean, i have always craved someone/something special and it always seemed that everyone had it but me. it was when i stopped trying so much it (or HE) fell into my lap funnily enough... and what a weird strange way for it to happen... i mean really, i was shit scared of him before we met!!! about it falling into your lap and all, that might be a silly comment, koz it doesnt always happen that way.. but i hope it happens 2 u missy, koz u deserve it. umm anyway back to the point...   what was my point again? hehe... oh the bananas thats right xox |
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Post by Tristessa on Apr 13, 2004 17:28:21 GMT 7
I would rather be single than be in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship. Being in a lousy relationship is not worth it. You should ony give up on your single life if the person is truly worth it. Feeling lonely or whatever effect single life is having on you should be remembered when you are in a truly loving relationship and you will treasure it all the more. I think the point Honeyspider was making is that love comes along when you least expect, and in many cases when your trying the least. The very night I chucked in the thought of ever meeting a decent guy, I went out for a girls night only and totally dismissed the thought of meeting anyone. OOPS I ran into a guy, three years later we are still together! ;D YOu just have to be patient and not try so hard coz we all have to shovel through a lot of shit to find our treasure. |
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Post by .honeyspider. on Apr 13, 2004 17:34:43 GMT 7
I would rather be single than be in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship. Being in a lousy relationship is not worth it. You should ony give up on your single life if the person is truly worth it. Feeling lonely or whatever effect single life is having on you should be remembered when you are in a truly loving relationship and you will treasure it all the more. I think the point Honeyspider was making is that love comes along when you least expect, and in many cases when your trying the least. yes.. exactly well said girly |
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Post by Tristessa on Apr 14, 2004 7:55:22 GMT 7
Thanks! I hope it made some sense for people! |
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Post by .honeyspider. on Apr 14, 2004 8:33:06 GMT 7
im pretty sure it does make sense.. however alot of people dont agree with the whole "only be in a relationship for hte long term.." and thats ok.. each to their own.. ive heard of people who are quite happy going along seeing as many people as possible, enjoying as many people as possible in their lives.. and good on them.. i just dont agree with it really... |
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Post by Tristessa on Apr 14, 2004 13:33:12 GMT 7
Neither but each to their own! ;D
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Post by nitrousovercast on Apr 15, 2004 18:48:32 GMT 7
well i went on a 'first date' with this nice guy who seems to like me rather a lot. which is nice, of course?
of course.
but we don't really have much in common. we haven't got a lot to talk about, or anything. well i mean we have got one thing in common but it's not a particularly good thing.
and now i feel like i'm leading him on, even though i like him and everything. I just don't feel like i can base any kind of relationship with him on anything. which is bad.
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Post by AlmostOz on Apr 16, 2004 8:55:07 GMT 7
well i went on a 'first date' with this nice guy who seems to like me rather a lot. which is nice, of course? of course. but we don't really have much in common. we haven't got a lot to talk about, or anything. well i mean we have got one thing in common but it's not a particularly good thing. and now i feel like i'm leading him on, even though i like him and everything. I just don't feel like i can base any kind of relationship with him on anything. which is bad. well its always good to have someone who likes you a lot. are you going to get rid of him or get to know him more? |
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Post by nitrousovercast on Apr 16, 2004 19:13:49 GMT 7
well i'm not going to 'get rid of him' because um. that's bad.
i don't know exactly, anyway. i mean i know him already, you know?
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Post by AlmostOz on Apr 17, 2004 9:58:59 GMT 7
well i'm not going to 'get rid of him' because um. that's bad. i don't know exactly, anyway. i mean i know him already, you know? i didn't mean kill him im not really sure it gets pretty tricky aye. im not very smart today, i drank too much last night |
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Post by stumbleine on Apr 18, 2004 16:18:52 GMT 7
Thats the way to go, Nick. Kill those brain cells. |
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Post by AlmostOz on Apr 19, 2004 8:33:06 GMT 7
Thats the way to go, Nick. Kill those brain cells. targeting the weak ones for my exam on the 24th |
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Post by nitrousovercast on Apr 20, 2004 18:27:25 GMT 7
off topic: omgjacquicanimarryyouravatar?okaythanksbye
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Post by stumbleine on Apr 23, 2004 13:12:03 GMT 7
off topic: omgjacquicanimarryyouravatar?okaythanksbye um ... okay. You can marry my avatar, but I want the real guy. hmmm ... Jesse Lacey |
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Post by nitrousovercast on Apr 25, 2004 10:13:19 GMT 7
damn! you got me there...
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Post by stumbleine on Apr 26, 2004 10:41:06 GMT 7
;D
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