Jay
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Post by Jay on Jul 21, 2004 22:10:19 GMT 7
do you beleive in the "true" love theory??? i always have, but have lately been doubting that i might ever find it...
see i've always believed that there is one person especially for me and always held onto the hope that i might find this person... but now im just drained and doubting the theory that there may be that special person out there who encompasses everything that i have ever wanted in a girl, actually it sounds like im trying to explain the perfect woman... but im not... dont worry it makes sence in my mind...
and then what do you do if you've let that person slip through your fingers... do you give up and wonder what could be, what might have been??see, ive only ever had one person like this in my life, and while i cant say that i loved her, i think that she might have been the one that i want... but its too late now...
frankly i blame billy for putting all of this love crap into my head... damn you corgan... damn you to hell!!!!
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Post by AlmostOz on Jul 22, 2004 5:25:43 GMT 7
ive been with three people who i know would have been right for me but who im with now is still the best  theres more than one person out there for you, don't worry, you just have to a adapt a little sometimes |
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Post by SPchick on Jul 22, 2004 17:33:33 GMT 7
I dont believe there is "one"
I believe that there people who are right for you and certain points of your life.
And I think people are just lucky if its the same person throughout their whole life.
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Post by .honeyspider. on Jul 23, 2004 8:27:56 GMT 7
see i've always believed that there is one person especially for me and always held onto the hope that i might find this person... but now im just drained and doubting the theory that there may be that special person out there who encompasses everything that i have ever wanted in a girl, actually it sounds like im trying to explain the perfect woman... but im not... dont worry it makes sence in my mind... and then what do you do if you've let that person slip through your fingers... do you give up and wonder what could be, what might have been??see, ive only ever had one person like this in my life, and while i cant say that i loved her, i think that she might have been the one that i want... but its too late now... i know exaclty where u are coming from. i have often felt in the past that i mightve let someone "slip" through my fingers.. and didnt see it til it was "too late"... and like yourself, did think there was a "one".. but through experience and talking to other people and their views on it... i came to the conclusion that i believe there is more than "one" person for everyone, but we connect with people at different levels. its just about finding who is good enough, or above that level for you. i have met maybe 3 people in my life who i thought were above that level and so far only one who actually is and it happened at the right time. the people i have met in the past who are either close to it or above it, it is hard i guess... because often you dont really REALLY know what your levels are (this is something you need to really think about - long term) and if someone is close.. then it can be difficult to decide whether to start a relationship with them or keep it at a friends level. anyway, i felt like some people i kept at a friends level when it shouldve been more, and visa versa. this is where those feelings of "maybe i shouldve sayed with him/her" come in... but hey, i also believe if its meant to be its meant to be.. and youll eventually end up being what u are supposed to in the long run.... and having crapped on enough.. ill stop. but i do know exactly how u feel... trust me. i have spent the last year figuring this out, and im still not 100% yet! ;D |
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Friends of P.
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Post by Friends of P. on Jul 24, 2004 9:01:11 GMT 7
I'm kind of a fence sitter on this one because I think that in finding the person to stick with for the rest of your life, you need to have alot of bad experiences as a learning curb, some people are lucky they have all the schematics of relationships sorted from the get go, but us other poor slobs have to get beaten about in the wind for a while until we come across someone who has had similar experience to comprise a healthy(ntice I didn't say perfect) relationship where each person within it is on an even par. That said you could find that person and they could hurt you or you hurt them or both simultaneously. In this case moving on might not be to another person it might be the same person but after you've both worked through some shit together.
All I can say is, Good luck to everybody, trust your gut instincts, don't let anyone wear your self esteem down if they say they love you and comunication is the number one key.
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m!ke
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Post by m!ke on Aug 18, 2004 17:08:38 GMT 7
in life u can get caught up in a situation, and feel that it, or someone, has slipped through your fingers .... only to find later when u look back that indeed you now could handle it a little better etc.
wether a relationship turns out the way you want it to or not, i think the most important thing u can do is learn from what happened.
i dont believe that there is one person who is out there for you and that if u dont find them you will live a lonely life.. i havent worked the whole love and life thing out yet, but at 19 years old ill keep tryin a bit longer ... keep ur chin up mate, it will happen when u least expect it.
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NathanC
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Post by NathanC on Aug 14, 2005 8:52:51 GMT 7
I believe that there people who are right for you and certain points of your life. Good point -- but i can't accept it... |
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