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Post by SPchick on Apr 29, 2003 18:41:50 GMT 7
Ohh miss Donna you are in a mess aint you?
Gee Jesse gave you some good advice! How tops is my boyfriend? HOT and smart!!! Woohoo!
Anyway, sorry got sidetracked, I'm sending you a private message on this matter.
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lamer
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hello.. hello. if anyone wants to add me on msn feel free
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Post by lamer on May 27, 2003 19:32:23 GMT 7
Single life is fine! I just got out of an abusive disguisting relationship and i cant even look at most guys anymore without cringing.. i know thats wrong.. and im having trouble listening to smashing pumpkins music coz its his favorite band.. oww this sucks..
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whir
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Post by whir on Jun 4, 2003 9:22:37 GMT 7
i've been with someone for 2 and half years...
and i need more time to think about the actual benifit or if it is in fact a good thing.
i guess that in itself is a bad sign.
oh well... i've changed my core now, i'm a reversed and remarketed person. things change, why?
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nitrousovercast
blissed + gone
the gloaming
we are accidents waiting to happen
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Post by nitrousovercast on Jul 15, 2003 17:10:36 GMT 7
i know you're all going to think I'm not being serious or that I think I'm being serious but it's just a stupid high school thing {note: i'm only in year nine], but whatever it is, it IS real for me, so please just either bear with me or skip over this post. and if you do read it, you deserve a medal. Or just go look in kanzax's pockets I haven't been single forever, but I have for a long while now, and i know it really sucks. I find myself thinking I wish I had someone who I can just relax with, and is there for me. Someone I can talk to about anything, or not need to say anything at all - and they just understand. there's a guy in my class, a sweet guy, a mature guy [so hard to find in guys my age], a smart guy, a cute guy... A guy who is often looking at me when I look at him. A guy who gets embarrassed when he talks to me. A guy my best friend thinks likes me. "So what's the problem?" somebody might say. "talk to him!" the problem is his girlfriend. the end. please continue with what you were talking about.
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Post by SPchick on Jul 15, 2003 17:37:47 GMT 7
I know things change quickly at that age, but if your serious about this guy you should just wait to see what happens. It will do you no good to try to push him and his girlfriend apart, so just hang in there. If its meant to be it will happen...
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nitrousovercast
blissed + gone
the gloaming
we are accidents waiting to happen
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Post by nitrousovercast on Jul 15, 2003 17:47:52 GMT 7
the thing is even if i was that kind of person, i wouldn't need to because they're doing a pretty good job themselves. they break up every few days and get back together. every time i..don't know what it is but it's gone when they get back together, then it's back when they start yelling and swearing at each other, then it's gone because they've gotten back together.
i'm insane, aren't i.
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Post by PaRkA on Jul 15, 2003 18:07:18 GMT 7
well im unfortunately goin to be the rude one but i wont be harsh, your in yr 9 right so that makes you 14-15, ok the reason they fight is they are young they are stupid (relatively) and their hormones are running at enormous speeds, if you really like this guy talk to him, it doesnt have to have an ulterior motive or be purposeful, just ask him how his day has been, who won the footy just trivial stuff, build up a repore with him then when it happens (he fights with his girlfriend), all you have to do is listen dont make your move just let him know that you are there for him, trust me he will notice, especially if he finds himself getting along better with you than he is with his girlfriend, also he's young give him a break he's out for fun, you may just have to wait. trust me i know im into my second year of singledom and im 23, ive had some of the best times of my life being single, and i intend to have more, i have come to the realisation that when the time comes to settle down it will happen theres no point me breaking my heart every day over every girl that "could" be the one. im over it.. at the end of the day its your choice happy hunting.. remember just be your self
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nitrousovercast
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we are accidents waiting to happen
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Post by nitrousovercast on Jul 15, 2003 18:11:36 GMT 7
parka - you're a GOD
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Post by PaRkA on Jul 15, 2003 18:21:12 GMT 7
i know ;D
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Post by AlmostOz on Jul 15, 2003 18:23:08 GMT 7
I haven't been single forever, but I have for a long while now, and i know it really sucks. I find myself thinking I wish I had someone who I can just relax with, and is there for me. Someone I can talk to about anything, or not need to say anything at all - and they just understand. there's a guy in my class, a sweet guy, a mature guy [so hard to find in guys my age], a smart guy, a cute guy... A guy who is often looking at me when I look at him. A guy who gets embarrassed when he talks to me. A guy my best friend thinks likes me. "So what's the problem?" somebody might say. "talk to him!". i find this when you are single, you always think this. but when you are taken, then you don't think this anymore, and take things for granted. dunno what use that is
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nitrousovercast
blissed + gone
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Post by nitrousovercast on Jul 15, 2003 18:38:19 GMT 7
i do talk to him. today we were mucking around and playing with the 'emo' glasses. they're big. and sort of 70's. i guess you could call it friends - but it's always kind fo weird because theres a group of us and he always looks directly at me. and the emo glasses suit him really well
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Post by PaRkA on Jul 15, 2003 18:41:48 GMT 7
does he like the pumpkins??
if not bring that up, maybe suggest some songs to him, dont force feed him just let him know about them, maybe give him some songs that mean things to you, it will let him get to know you better without him even realising (if he's smart of course), maybe try that. and not just pumpkins any other band you like.
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nitrousovercast
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we are accidents waiting to happen
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Post by nitrousovercast on Jul 15, 2003 19:04:05 GMT 7
well i know he likes nirvana and metallica, and he lent me meteora but there was a big and stupid story with that rarg i don't know if he likes pumpkins. he knows i do though - everyone does. it would be nice if he did.
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Post by Gumby on Jul 16, 2003 18:09:58 GMT 7
Yay now its my turn! Being single is as simple as this. You are either single or taken. Both have its ups and downs. When you are sinlge make the most of it. Do the things you want to do. For instance you find you have more time to practise your guitar while you are single.
Im 22 and sinlge (man i wish things were simple now as they where in high school) and I dont like being sinlge either but im not the kinda person to start a relationship just because its cool to be in one. Also i dont like those couples who just start showing of because they are together and start showing off.
I think the worst think is having your parents always asking,"When are you gonna get a girl"
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Post by AlmostOz on Jul 19, 2003 8:18:07 GMT 7
thats pretty much it man : make the most of both because when you are one you want the other
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Post by PaRkA on Aug 24, 2003 19:58:33 GMT 7
um yeah coughnotsingleanymorecough
just thought i would let it out
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nitrousovercast
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Post by nitrousovercast on Aug 25, 2003 18:39:54 GMT 7
um yeah coughnotsingleanymorecough just thought i would let it out yyyyaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by sunky on Aug 26, 2003 7:48:17 GMT 7
weeeeeeeeee! is this Anna? ... your lady friend ...
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Post by PaRkA on Aug 26, 2003 16:03:26 GMT 7
yep ;D
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Post by SPchick on Aug 26, 2003 18:35:40 GMT 7
ohhhhhh *giggles* parka's got a lady! teeeheee
so when do I get to meet her hey?
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Post by PaRkA on Aug 26, 2003 19:46:41 GMT 7
when i have desensitised her
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Post by SPchick on Aug 26, 2003 19:53:57 GMT 7
*lol* probably a good idea! oh and who doesnt have a crush on wil anderson?? pfft he is pretty and funny.
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Post by .honeyspider. on Aug 27, 2003 14:11:14 GMT 7
being single sux
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Post by thatpumpkinschic on Aug 27, 2003 17:34:04 GMT 7
*lol* probably a good idea! oh and who doesnt have a crush on wil anderson?? pfft he is pretty and funny. yeh.............. *sigh*
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Post by sunky on Aug 28, 2003 7:34:04 GMT 7
*lol* probably a good idea! oh and who doesnt have a crush on wil anderson?? pfft he is pretty and funny. I have a crush on Will ... ... seriously ask Bree. He's soooooooooooooooooooooo dreamy
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Post by PaRkA on Aug 28, 2003 17:31:10 GMT 7
pfft please are you guys for real, the blows goats, and his jokes stink to high heaven ;D
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Carlie
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Post by Carlie on Aug 31, 2003 17:13:21 GMT 7
The guy's a king!! ;D Who wouldn't have a crush on him!
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Post by PaRkA on Aug 31, 2003 17:38:14 GMT 7
do u start... he's not bad i like the morning show with adam spencer its the best goin around... still my point is that LAURA has a crush on him, she never shuts up aboutr him...
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Post by thatpumpkinschic on Aug 31, 2003 18:55:38 GMT 7
still my point is that LAURA has a crush on him, she never shuts up aboutr him... might be a slight exaggeration. sometimes i talk about the smashing pumpkins. and sometimes i talk about the butterfly effect. but other than that, yeh, probably just wil.
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Post by anti on Aug 31, 2003 20:25:02 GMT 7
who doesnt like a guy with black nail polish?
(i dont know if he still wears it)
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